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life in idaho
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mike
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unlikely nomad
notes from my corner
oreneta
oregon rust
photobonnie
princess cranky pants
rootietoot
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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

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Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Oh For Crying Out Loud!


 

I've been tinkering with my google account and lost bunches of stuff. 

I have no idea where they went.

Crap.

trish @ Coffee Talk 08:45

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Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Some Things I'm Loving Right Now

~Lilacs are in full bloom! They are hands down my favorite flower, so fragrant and pretty. Until, of course the peonies bloom, then those are my favorites. And sunflowers. And daisies.

~Warm weather! Well, warm-ish . . . it's not sweaty hot, and it's not cold, but right now it's just perfect. 

~Books! It seems I've stumbled onto an accomplice in the form of son20's new room mate, a premed student enamored of the same doctor books that I love so much. We compared and swapped our latest inventory of medical reads. "Direct Red" and "Six Months in Sudan" for him and "Complications" and "Better" both by Atul Gawande for me - woo hoo!

~Soy milk! I've had an on again off again relationship with this stuff for years just because I find regular milk too, oh I don't know . . . heavy, I think, or just weirdly milky. I'm just not one to pour myself glasses of it. Anywhoo, recently I was reminded that drinking soy milk helps ease hot flashes . . . hullo? Yes please, make mine a double! Anyone have any personal experience with this?

~Cheese! Not the greatest for my girlish figure but . . . yum. It's going on everything these days. Here's something novel I discovered: a piece of old white cheddar with a piece of dark chocolate together on a cracker with a glass of red wine. Oh Man . . . I'm telling you . . . it's sublime.

~Air dried laundry! Yet another reason to love summer.

Trish @ Coffee Talk 09:20

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Thursday, May 14, 2009

Book Review






Six Months in Sudan by Dr. James Maskalyk 

I am so grateful to people like Dr. Maskalyk for his sacrifice and compassion. He left his comfortable Canadian life to bring his medical expertise to the people of the remote, war-torn village of Abyei, Sudan, and wrote about his experience, first in a blog and then in this book, in such a way that we could be there with him. 


". . . because I believe that which separates action from inaction is the same thing that separates my friends from Sudan. It is not indifference. It is distance. May it fall away." p4


". . . I wanted to see who I was when everything was taken away, when all the insulation between the world and me was removed" p7


“I lean back on my chair. Generators start to crackle madly in directions. It’s almost dark now. The girls throw some incense on the coals and the scent of frankincense swirls on the smoke. In the sky above Tim’s head, the minaret of the town mosque glows from within. A young boy in ripped brown shorts walks by barefoot, two goats tethered behind him.” p66


“I watched a woman take the most gentle care to offer her child water from a plastic cup, holding her hand under the rim so that not a drop was spilled.  The child refused, and the mother offered it gently again. It was such a beautiful, intimate act of love.” (from the blog) p138


I was captivated by Dr. Maskalyk’s voice, observations and honesty; this was a difficult assignment and he makes no apologies for the physical and emotional struggles he encountered. He had to keep reminding himself of the greater task of bringing medical care to those who needed it the most with his very limited resources, which meant sometimes having to say no. No, he couldn’t use their one vehicle as an ambulance. No, he couldn’t use their one vehicle as a hearse. No, he couldn’t build them a better road. 


“One can interpret these requests in two ways. The first, that these people expect others to do everything. The second, that they believe that we can do everything.” p211


I knew I liked Dr. Maskalyk from the very first page but it was in this line from his blog that nailed it:


“My morning run has been suspended recently so that I might concentrate more fully on smoking”


I laughed out loud; it was a relief to see just how human he was. How many times have I suspended my exercise routine so that I might concentrate more fully on chocolate consumption? 


Yes, this subject is difficult and heavy, but Six Months in Sudan is a compelling and completely readable book.


Want to know more? Here are some links:


http://www.sixmonthsinsudan.com/


http://www.msf.org/

Trish @ Coffee Talk 13:33

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Friday, May 08, 2009

Son17 just received an acceptance letter from his first choice university. WOOHOO we're all very excited . . . except when I realize that it means he'll be moving out west !?! How can I be excited and homesick for him all at the same time? Curse these motherhood emotions! He said he didn't want to follow his friends to university around here, that it would just be all the same high-school bullshit, seems he wants to make a clean break to reinvent himself . . . keeping in touch with everyone, of course, but away from their daily influence *sigh* he's so mature already. 

*reaching for kleenex* 

My boys - they're so sweet. 

See what I mean?

And that's not even all of them. Number three was still in the oven when hub took this picture of his 'helpers' sorting lumber for a back-yard swing set, and now number three is son12 and will be the only one in the house come September. No more brothers to fight with! No more waiting for the bathroom! No more arguing over the last of the Captain Crunch! 

No, it'll just be hub and me

 Little Jimmy couldn't wait for his brothers to leave home so he could finally have his supercool, rockin' parents all to himself. 

Poor boy, he'll be bored to tears.

So yeah, mornings, those have been fun with Son17 around. He takes morning grouchiness to a whole new level and after he's laid waste to his kid brother over finishing the last of the favorite cereal, he will get started on his dad with a pointless argument about . . . something - to which hub will lob back a tirade about son17's bad attitude "and for god's sake pull your pants up over your boxers! No son of mine is leaving this house with his pants belted around his butt cheeks!" That kind of thing. It's a different and lame conflict every time and as long as no one spills my coffee I just pretty much keep out of it. Although lately I've been tempted to keep score . . . 


. . . just to keep it interesting, but son17 usually breaks for the car while I'm still trying to calm hub and son12 down. I don't know when they'll learn not to make eye contact with him before noon. My mother, bless her heart, used to worry that there was something medically wrong with him when he was a baby because he was such a monster in the morning and after naps. But no, he's just a sweet boy that has getting-out-of-bed issues. I'm sure his future roommates will overlook that on account of his sweetness (see first picture, little tyke with the skewed shorts and arms all akimbo). 

I find it all very endearing, but then I might be biased.

Trish @ Coffee Talk 15:16

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